Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Art. Is it or isn't it?



I had a lot of random thoughts today. One of them being, what is art? What makes an artist, genetics or passion? Art can be many things... A beautiful painting of the "woman with a parasol" by Monet, an ancient artifact from the Ming Dynasty, the Czarina of Russia's jewels,a statue of the greek goddess Nike(in picture), the way your heart skips a beat when you see your secret crush, the way the your hair whips your face on a windy day, the sound of crickets in the silence of the night, the way your mind wanders to far away places and times as though you're made of air, and many other things that at times seem so insignificant that we don't even notice it's existence. I mean, how many of us actually notice that the sun looks like a silver ball of light at noon or that how many stars there are in the sky? When was the last time we looked at the sky for reasons other than to ascertain whether it is likely to rain or not? Now, if art is all of these things, then that would make all of us artists. It's just that some of us are more passionate about it than others. We create art daily just by putting a smile on someone's face or with our footsteps on the sandy beaches and our slightly off key hums when we think no one's listening. Art can be both beautiful and painful, if a smile is an art then so is a tear, or dark sky that is about to empty out it's soul onto our already burdened hearts, even the mumbles of discontent that we make when we think no one's listening and at the very least our painted fingernails.

Art. It puts smiles on our faces or portrays the sadness and grief that our heart feels; it can be many things to many people. What is beautiful and artistic to me may not be the essence of art to somebody else, but as long as we acknowledge that art is akin to our emotions in that it can never be interpreted or understood completely, we will learn to to accept it for what it is and finally look at it the way all great artists do; It has a life of it's own that evolves in it's own time and evokes in people a myriad of feelings that have a revolution of their own as time goes by, and each time it shows us a different part of itself, to share and to behold. Revel in it while you can, because art like time waits for no man, and we can only be grateful that we were privileged enough to see it and to make it even.


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Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Prince Charming

I don't know about other people, but I've always wondered who is Prince Charming? Is he the guy you marry? Is he the guy who helps you gather your books when you drop them? Is he your first love? Is he the guy you bring home to meet your parents? OR is he simply the guy that every girl is taught to believe exists through fairy tales and movies galore. The thing is, Prince Charming is the guy that has been ingrained in our brain as the perfect guy that every other guy must live up to. Talk about setting up a guy to fail. Most of us are so focused on finding this "perfect" guy, that we forget the most important thing, perfection is not a set of rules that we must follow, rather our own perception of what we want or need in a guy. This in itself destroys the image of Prince Charming as each of us want so many different qualities in a guy, that Prince Charming would have to split himself up into a million different guys to appease each one of us.

You must be wondering what's up with me and Prince Charming? Well, a friend of mine asked me if i would marry the first guy i met, and i said yeah! if he's the right one. The thing is some of us meet that "perfect" guy that has all the qualities we want the very first time, some of us have to go through a few before we find "him". Sometimes i wonder if I'll ever meet him, and then i ask myself what would i do if i did? Spend all my time hanging around him, afraid to let go, clingy as hell...Nah!!! It's good that i'm gonna have time to discover myself, find out what's my favourite food, flower, song, colour, how i like my egg in the morning or even what i wanna do for the rest of my life, my plans and all that. I know i can't control when he comes along, but i hopes he comes when I've grown into my skin and become the person that i have been put on earth to be.

Then, the question would be how would i know he's the one? Well, that's easy. All i have to ask myself is, is this the guy the one i want tell my deepest darkest secret to and share with him my greatest fears without fear of being laughed at or belittled. OR simply, do i trust him with my heart?

Someday i will ask that question, and i hope the answer will be yes!


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