I don't know about other people, but I've always wondered who is Prince Charming? Is he the guy you marry? Is he the guy who helps you gather your books when you drop them? Is he your first love? Is he the guy you bring home to meet your parents? OR is he simply the guy that every girl is taught to believe exists through fairy tales and movies galore. The thing is, Prince Charming is the guy that has been ingrained in our brain as the perfect guy that every other guy must live up to. Talk about setting up a guy to fail. Most of us are so focused on finding this "perfect" guy, that we forget the most important thing, perfection is not a set of rules that we must follow, rather our own perception of what we want or need in a guy. This in itself destroys the image of Prince Charming as each of us want so many different qualities in a guy, that Prince Charming would have to split himself up into a million different guys to appease each one of us.
You must be wondering what's up with me and Prince Charming? Well, a friend of mine asked me if i would marry the first guy i met, and i said yeah! if he's the right one. The thing is some of us meet that "perfect" guy that has all the qualities we want the very first time, some of us have to go through a few before we find "him". Sometimes i wonder if I'll ever meet him, and then i ask myself what would i do if i did? Spend all my time hanging around him, afraid to let go, clingy as hell...Nah!!! It's good that i'm gonna have time to discover myself, find out what's my favourite food, flower, song, colour, how i like my egg in the morning or even what i wanna do for the rest of my life, my plans and all that. I know i can't control when he comes along, but i hopes he comes when I've grown into my skin and become the person that i have been put on earth to be.
Then, the question would be how would i know he's the one? Well, that's easy. All i have to ask myself is, is this the guy the one i want tell my deepest darkest secret to and share with him my greatest fears without fear of being laughed at or belittled. OR simply, do i trust him with my heart?
Someday i will ask that question, and i hope the answer will be yes!
You must be wondering what's up with me and Prince Charming? Well, a friend of mine asked me if i would marry the first guy i met, and i said yeah! if he's the right one. The thing is some of us meet that "perfect" guy that has all the qualities we want the very first time, some of us have to go through a few before we find "him". Sometimes i wonder if I'll ever meet him, and then i ask myself what would i do if i did? Spend all my time hanging around him, afraid to let go, clingy as hell...Nah!!! It's good that i'm gonna have time to discover myself, find out what's my favourite food, flower, song, colour, how i like my egg in the morning or even what i wanna do for the rest of my life, my plans and all that. I know i can't control when he comes along, but i hopes he comes when I've grown into my skin and become the person that i have been put on earth to be.
Then, the question would be how would i know he's the one? Well, that's easy. All i have to ask myself is, is this the guy the one i want tell my deepest darkest secret to and share with him my greatest fears without fear of being laughed at or belittled. OR simply, do i trust him with my heart?
Someday i will ask that question, and i hope the answer will be yes!
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